Monday, July 2, 2007

Oh, man...



Why isn't it enough to say "I don't think it's gonna happen"?
I need to have some sort of dissertation as to the how's and why's I don't think a particular shidduch will work?
How do you articulate a vibe?
How do you explain that from the get go, you feel this need to suppress yourself, and that that's not healthy at all?





Shidduchim really suck sometimes...

11 comments:

the dreamer said...

yeah, they do...

don't you just loooooove the analyzing bits that are required after each date?

may you find the right one soon!

Shoshana said...

I feel ya there - sorry :(

Anonymous said...

ahhhh the joys of being single......

come running said...

I totally get you.

I'm not attracted to either of the two guys I have dates with this week, but I'm going to at least meet them once in person.

good luck on the dating

I added you to my blogroll. Could you do the same? tia www.dreamsofwho.blogspot.com

Shmuel said...

Dreamer - About ten minutes after the second date my folks call me. "So nu... are you gonna take her out again?"
As if it only takes a moments thought...
Amen to that, and same to you.
Shoshana - Thank you for the support...
Moe - Yeah, right. Are we forgetting our discussion from Motzei Shabbos?
Come Running - Done with the add...

David_on_the_Lake said...

I agree...a shidduch has to be an intuitive thing..

On the other hand..some people need that analyzation..

It aint easy...

Shmuel said...

Postscript: She said no!
This makes things considerably easier, even though she didn't have the kindest things to say about me...
My ego can take it though; it's been callused from many years worth of rejections and the like...

the dreamer said...

yeah, it makes it easier, but ouch! that hurts!

Anonymous said...

so what happens if you start dating a bloger?

Shmuel said...

Like I said, Dreamer. Doesn't really hurt. And after what she said, my mom's on my side...
Good question, JJ...

Sarah Likes Green said...

oy, i hear ya.

shame :(

::::sigh::::